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"Why doesn't he look at me the way he used to?"
I whispered those words to myself as I stared at my phone…
Watching his “last seen” change from 5 minutes ago… to 10 minutes… to 30 minutes…
While my message sat there on “delivered.”
Not even opened.
My chest felt tight.
My throat burned like I wanted to cry but the tears wouldn’t come.
I looked at our old photos together…
The ones where “Dayo” was staring at me like I was the only woman on earth…
Like I was the prize he fought so hard to win…
Like he would do anything just to make me smile…
But now?
He barely looked up from his phone when I walked into the room.
Now he said “I’m busy” more than he said “I love you.”
Now he gives me a dry, boring, lifeless peck on the cheek… like I was his sister.
Now I felt like I was just… there.
Like a furniture.
Like someone he was used to but didn’t really see anymore.
And the worst part?
I didn’t know what I did wrong.
I Tried Everything to Get His Attention Back
I cooked his favorite meals.
I dressed up nice even when we were just indoor.
I sent him sweet messages in the morning.
I asked him what was wrong.
I tried to be “cool” and not complain.
I even tried giving him space — thinking maybe he just needed time.
But nothing changed.
He still spent hours on his phone like it was the lover I used to be…
Still made more plans with his boys than with me.
And I was left wondering...
“Am I not enough anymore?”
“Is there someone else?”
“Did he ever really love me… or was I just convenient?”
I remember the night I almost gave up completely…
I was lying in bed next to him.
He was scrolling through Instagram, smiling at something on his screen.
I touched his arm softly and said, “Baby, can we talk?”
He didn’t even look at me.
Just said, “Not now. I’m tired.”
And rolled over.
That night I cried so quietly I could hear my own heartbeat.
I felt invisible.
Used.
Unlovable.
Like I was begging for scraps of attention from a man who used to worship me.
And in that moment, I knew I was at an important crossroads in my life…
I KNEW I HAD TO DO SOMETHING
And as I thought about it, I realized I only had three options…
OPTION 1
I could stay and accept that this is just how relationships are.
The passion dies.
Love fades.
And I should just be grateful he’s still with me and paying bills.
OPTION 2
I could end things with him
Start over with someone else.
Go back to dating apps and blind dates…
And men who lie about everything.
Put myself through the emotional brutality of dating in Nigeria today…
Risk ending up alone again or with someone I didn’t love half as much as Dayo…
OR I COULD MAKE THE CHOICE I DID...
The scary choice. The brave choice…
OPTION 3
Find out what I was doing wrong.
Figure out how to make him see me again.
And make him want me again the way he did when we first met.
I chose option 3.
Because deep down, I knew this man loved me once.
And if he loved me once… he could love me like that again.
I just needed to understand what changed.
And how to change it back.
I need to understand the truth about what love, attention and devotion actually mean to men
And why it’s very different than what it means to us women…
The truth about why men seem to lose interest in you after a while no matter how beautiful you are or how hard you try to keep his attention on you…
The truth about how to keep the desire and connection in your relationship whether you’re together for two weeks or forty years…
THE COMPLETELY COUNTERINTUITIVE TRUTH
…that leaves so many Nigerian women lonely and sad instead of being loved by a man forever the way you deserve.
I had two weeks before his family event…
(His mother had told him to come with his girlfriend when coming to the event)
Two weeks where I’d have to sit there and smile and pretend everything was perfect…
Two weeks to learn what I hadn’t learned in all my years of dating…
Two weeks to save my relationship and save my future…
Two weeks before I completely lost my mind from the anxiety and loneliness.
So I started searching.
I googled…
“how to make your man love you again.”
I scrolled through relationship advice on Instagram.
I asked my friends what they thought.
And you know what I found?
Useless advice.
“Just communicate better.”
(We all know men don’t want to talk about feelings.)
(We all know men don’t want to talk about feelings.)
“Be more confident.”
(How am I supposed to be confident when he’s making me feel worthless?)
(How am I supposed to be confident when he’s making me feel worthless?)
“Give him space.”
(I gave him space. He used it to ignore me even more.)
(I gave him space. He used it to ignore me even more.)
“Play hard to get.”
(We’re already dating! What am I supposed to do, disappear?)
(We’re already dating! What am I supposed to do, disappear?)
I was so frustrated.
So lost.
So ready to just accept that I was the problem and there was nothing I could do about it.
And then, I found him.
This one relationship expert named Akin Cole who I’d seen on Twitter…
And who has 73,000 followers…
Reading post after post he wrote I felt like I finally found a man who understood…
I read testimonial after testimonial from Nigerian women saying this man had “saved” their relationships.
And I hoped and prayed he could help me.
I almost had a panic attack when I saw his consultation fee — ₦50,000 for just one hour of his time…
₦50,000?
Just 1 hour?
But then I counted down the days until the family event…
And I thought about what would happen if Dayo introduced me to his family while treating me like an afterthought…
So I sent the money and booked the call…
“Tell me everything,” Akin said.
So I did…
I told him what happened with Dayo (and with the previous relationship I had that ended before it got started)…
How lonely I was even though I’m dating someone I really liked…
How sick I was of being disappointed again and again…
How scared I was of ending up old and alone like some of my aunties…
I told him about the distance.
The coldness.
How hard I was trying and how little it seemed to matter.
Akin listened without interrupting, and I could see through the video call that he really understood what I was going through…
AND THEN HE TOLD ME A SECRET THAT CHANGED MY LIFE FOREVER.
A secret that had been destroying my relationships without me even knowing it…
A secret I’m about to reveal to you today…
“Chioma,” he said, “this might sound odd, but most of the problems you’re having come down to how you’re showing up.”
“What you need to understand is that love to a man is respect…”
“And most ladies don’t understand how this works.”
“Every time you interact with him — how you talk, how you carry yourself, what you ask for, what you tolerate…“
“All of it sends an unconscious message to the masculine part of a man.”
“The mistake you’re making is thinking you can get his love just by giving more and more…”
“By being ‘nicer‘ and ‘sweeter‘ and more available…“
It works, but not for long.
“I promise you, if you just do what I’m about to tell you, everything will change and you’ll never go through this again.”
Then he told me what a woman must communicate to a man every single day…
To make him fall in love with you if he isn’t already…
And reawaken his love – and his obsession – for you forever if he already is…
I write furiously on my note as he explained…
THE 3 THINGS YOU MUST COMMUNICATE TO ANY MAN
First, you must communicate: “You are safe with me.”
You have to use feminine softness and calmness to invite him to let down his shields and reveal the vulnerable part of himself to you…
Because as long as he has his emotional “armor” on, it’s impossible for him to open his heart to you…
Second, you must communicate: “You are powerful and I respect you.“
It has to feed the part of his masculine soul that needs the adoration and respect of his woman…
To make him feel like a man…
To make him feel like he’s doing something right…
Third, you must communicate: “I give myself to you because I am valuable and you have earned me.“
To make the testosterone flow through his veins…
To make him feel like you are his to protect and cherish…
To make him want to claim you in front of everyone…
As long as you communicate these three things to any man in the way you carry yourself, he will be yours mind, body and soul… forever.
I sat there staring at my screen.
Everything he said made sense.
But I had no idea how to do it.
So I asked him to explain further…
My palms got sweaty and my heart started racing as he broke it down for me…
EXACTLY HOW TO MAKE ANY MAN OBSESSED WITH YOU.
I felt like a fool, but I practiced the techniques he taught me…
The day of the family event, I didn’t act the way I normally would…
Dayo looked confused — like he expected me to be anxious or clingy.
I was nervous inside, but the moment we walked in…
I used what Akin called “The High-Value Woman Energy” to show Dayo (and his family) exactly who I was…
Calm. Confident. Relaxed
I smiled warmly at his mother. I didn’t scramble to impress or overdo anything.
I just… existed. Beautifully.
And something shifted.
Dayo kept looking at me.
Not with boredom. Not with indifference.
But with something I hadn’t seen in months…
Pride.
Later that night, he pulled me close and whispered:
“You were amazing today Baby. My mom kept asking me when I’m going to marry you.”
And then he kissed me.
Not a peck. A real kiss.
The kind that said, “You’re mine and I’m never letting you go.”
The next day, my friend Blessing pulled me aside and said, “Babe, what’s happening? You’re different…”
Why the distance between Dayo and me had suddenly vanished…
Why he was bringing up marriage and our future out of nowhere…
Without even thinking, I started downloading every advice Akin Cole gave me to her…
Two weeks later, she called me crying happy tears.
Her boyfriend – the same one who “wasn’t ready” – had introduced her to his parents and started asking about her bride price.
Then my cousin Adaeze called me.
She was dealing with a man who took her for granted and barely made effort anymore…
I explained the “Strategic Distance” technique Akin had shown me…
And we both couldn’t stop laughing when she told me how he started calling her multiple times a day…
And even cancelled some plans just to spend time with her…
And then things started to get a little out of hand…
Adaeze has never been good at keeping a secret…
What I’d told her about Akin’s advice started spreading through our friend circle like wildfire…
And the messages on WhatsApp started flooding in…
Single women telling me they’d used these methods to make men who were “just talking” suddenly ask them to be their girlfriend…
Women in relationships saying that just changing how they carried themselves made their men finally ready to pay their bride price…
Women who had been married for years saying that their husbands started treating them like they were dating again — calling during the day, bringing gifts, showing them off…
And, unbelievably, it was all because they learned how to make their man obsessed with them again.
Eventually the guilt was too much and I called Akin…
I apologized for sharing his work even though he’d asked me not to…
But, after thinking of all the pain I’d been in for so long…
And how many other women were suffering just like I had been…
Women who could never afford to pay ₦50,000 for an hour of his time…
I swallowed my pride and quickly begged him to share these secrets with the world…
At first he refused…
He was angry that I’d broken his trust the way I did…
But after seeing how many women needed to know this, he finally agreed.
Over the next few months I worked with “Akin Cole” to pull out every secret, every technique, every trick and every idea out of him…
Secrets like…
The 5 Behaviors That Make You Magnetic
How to carry yourself so he suddenly sees you as the prize…
How to create quiet confidence that pulls his attention without you saying a word…
How to stop over-explaining, over-giving, and over-functioning so he finally steps up…
(Most women accidentally push men away by doing things they think are “loving” — you’ll learn what to stop doing immediately)
The Reset Energy
And exactly how to shift your presence so a man who’s been cold or distant suddenly looks at you with fresh eyes…
Even if you’ve been together for years and he barely notices you anymore…
And how to use strategic absence and calm boundaries to pull his attention back to you like a magnet…
(This one shift alone can change everything in less than a week.)
What to say when he’s being cold or distant so he opens up instead of shutting down…
And the 3 phrases that make a Nigerian man feel respected, safe, and eager to talk to you…
(Plus the ONE thing you should never say if you want him to actually listen.)
The Chase Reversal Method
How to stop chasing him — and make him start chasing you again…
Even if you’ve been the one calling, texting, and planning everything for months…
And the psychology behind why men only value what they have to work for…
WARNING: When you do this right, he might start acting jealous or possessive — in a good way.
The “Let Him Miss You” Strategy
That makes him think about you constantly even when you’re not around…
Without playing games, ignoring him, or acting cold…
And how to create just enough space so he realizes how much he needs you…
(This works even if you live together — I’ll show you exactly how.)
How to make him feel like a man — the #1 thing that keeps a Nigerian man in love forever…
And the small, simple actions that feed his ego in a healthy way and make him feel ten feet tall around you…
(Men will do ANYTHING for a woman who makes them feel this way.)
The texting mistakes that make men lose interest fast…
And how to send WhatsApp messages that make him smile, miss you, and want to see you immediately…
(You’ll get exact templates you can copy and send — no guessing, no overthinking.)
What men are really thinking when they pull away, go quiet, or act “busy”…
And how to respond in a way that pulls him closer instead of pushing him further…
(Spoiler: It’s almost never what you think it is.)
How to stop feeling needy or insecure… even when he’s not giving you the attention you want…
And how to rebuild your confidence so you stop waiting for him to validate you…
(When you feel whole on your own, he’ll notice — and he’ll want to be part of that energy.)
The “Wife Material Test” men unconsciously run on every woman they date…
And how to pass it so he sees you as marriage material — not just a girlfriend or situationship…
(This is the difference between “I like her” and “I need to marry her before someone else does.”)
How to recover if you’ve already been too available, too emotional, or “too much”…
And the step-by-step plan to reset his perception of you and start fresh…
(Yes, you can undo the damage. I’ll show you how.)
The daily habits that keep love alive for years — not just months…
So you never have to worry about the passion dying or him getting bored…
And how to grow closer over time instead of drifting apart like most couples do…
And we’re just scratching the surface here.
There are so many more life-changing secrets packed into the guide Akin and I created together called…
Techniques like…
The High-Value Woman Energy
This is the presence I used at the family event that led to Dayo treating me like a queen…
Use it and you’ll wake up the protective, committed side of your man so he sees you as the woman he can’t afford to lose…
WARNING: ONLY use this when you’re ready for him to start getting serious about your future…
When you do it right, he won’t be able to help himself but start planning long-term with you.
The Power Pause
And how to create powerful silence that makes him chase your words and attention…
(Even better, you can do this in public. You haven’t lived until you’ve had your man desperate to know what you’re thinking.)
The Soft Redirect Method
I gave to my friend Blessing…
And how to guide a man to give you what you need without nagging or begging…
(This method might seem “too simple” at first, but the way he suddenly starts treating you like a priority will astound you.)
The Respect Language
And how to make a man feel truly seen and valued in seconds…
So all his resistance and coldness fades away and all he can feel is gratitude that he has such an amazing woman in his life.
The Mystery Reset
And why pulling back just slightly can make him feel like he’s discovering you for the very first time…
And there's so much more I haven't even mentioned yet…
CAN YOU FEEL THAT?
That flutter in your chest…
That tightness in your throat…
That deep hunger to finally understand this…
To actually know how to do this…
To take control of your love life once and for all?
To become the woman he can’t imagine losing?
To never again waste years on a man who won’t commit?
To have the kind of relationship that makes other women ask, “What’s your secret?”
So let me ask you, what would it be worth to have all of this in your hands?
What would it be worth to become the woman he proudly calls “my wife“?
What would it be worth to never again lie awake wondering if he really loves you?
Look, I don’t want to be negative here…
But I see too many Nigerian women suffering every single day because nobody taught them how men really think…
They spend thousands on therapy that doesn’t change anything…
They beg and plead and cry, hoping he’ll finally see their worth…
Or the single ones…
Spending money on hair appointments, makeup, clothes, and expensive dates…
…while still not understanding what actually makes a Nigerian man fall in love and stay.
Take a moment and really think about this…
Let it sink in…
What would be a fair price to completely transform your love life…
FOREVER?
What would it take for you to make your man completely obsessed (in a good way) with you again?
Like I said, I paid Akin ₦50,000 naira to learn these secrets (and feel like I got an amazing deal doing so…)
But how much is it worth to you?
If you’re being completely honest with yourself… you’d say ₦20,000 or even more would be totally and completely fair to feel that confidence…
I bet you’d think that was cheap to never have to feel that anxiety with men again.
To never have to wonder again how he felt about you…
Because you can feel the respect and desire and love emanating off him like heat…
But you know what, I’m a woman myself and I get it…
I know that even when you want something so much and know it’s a total steal at the price you’re paying…
As a Nigerian woman who’s spent so much of your life giving and giving and giving to others…
Sometimes you just can’t give yourself what you need.
If what I’ve shared connects with you, then I feel like you and I have a lot in common.
I FEEL LIKE WE'RE SISTERS
Which is why I begged Akin to let me offer you…
“The Love Reset: How To Make Him Obsessed With You Again”
At a discounted price you simply aren’t going to believe…
So, because you’ve given me some of your precious time, you’re not going to pay ₦20,000…
I’m not going to ask you to invest ₦15,000…
For you, the retail price of “The Love Reset” is just one single payment of ₦10,000…
And if you take action right now, I’ll give you a whopping 50% off…
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But you have to act right now.
You may want to go and “think about it”…
But I’ve put myself on the line with Akin here…
I convinced him to keep the price so low for now…
But after working so hard on this guide…
Sharing secrets he swore he would only share with his private high-paying coaching clients…
And hearing from the hundreds of Nigerian women who have already grabbed “The Love Reset” and gotten astonishing results with it…
Akin feels like ₦5,000 is just WAY TOO CHEAP.
And that he feels like he’s cheating his private high-paying clients…
So he said he may need to DOUBLE or even TRIPLE the price to something more “reasonable.”
So please, if you come back in a few hours or tomorrow or anytime at all and you can’t get the discount anymore…
Please, don’t message me begging… If you pass it up now there’s just nothing I can do for you.
Oh, and just to take away any excuse your brain can come up with not to do this for yourself…
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Why did I push Akin to offer such a generous guarantee?
Simple. Because I’ve been exactly where you are right now…
I know the pain. The confusion. The loneliness.
I want you to experience this incredible power and confidence.
And if putting my own credibility on the line helps even one more woman ? I‘ll do it without hesitation…
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OK, if you’re not convinced yet…
If there’s still a little voice in the back of your head that isn’t quite sure…
Let me do one more thing to “knock you off the fence”…
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If you were shopping online that would all add up to ₦30,000…
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(Which Akin could force me to stop offering at any time)
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I don’t know about you, but if I was shopping and saw ₦30,000 worth of value drop to less than ₦6,000, I’d feel like I won the lottery…
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How every man you meet just looks at you differently…
How guys who “never took you seriously” find themselves ignoring other women and thinking only of you…
If you’re like most women you’re going to have a hard time wiping the confident smile off your face…
Or keeping that glow out of your eyes…
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OK, IT'S TIME TO TAKE ACTION
You’re at a crossroads right now.
(Just like I was before I took the plunge and learned these secrets myself)
And you really just have two very different options…
Leading to two very different lives…
Option 1 is to leave this page without getting the book…
I think you already know what will happen if you do this…
That heavy feeling in your heart. That sense that you made a mistake, didn’t take an opportunity you wanted so much…
That widening gap between you and him.
The same patterns repeating.
The same loneliness.
The same wondering if you’re enough.
I know you don’t want that.
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Let me leave you with one final and incredibly important lesson…
Do you know what men find irresistibly attractive in women?
DECISIVENESS.
The wisdom to know what you truly desire (and I can tell you want this badly)… and the boldness to pursue it.
If you feel like there’s a gap between you and him…
If you aren’t getting the love and attention and respect you deserve…
Just make a tiny, easy decision right now…
I’ve unlocked the door.
All you have to do is walk through it.
I hope you understand that I’ve stacked the deck so much in your favor that you can’t lose.
Actually there is one way you can lose…
By walking away from this wonderful opportunity…
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Just click the button below… I personally promise you’ll be happy you did.
Because I’m so happy I did…
I’m so happy I “took a chance” with Akin and used what he taught me to make sure I’ll never end up on the dating roller coaster again…
In fact, I think back sometimes
What would have happened if I didn’t trust my gut and learn what Akin had to teach me…
If I had remained clueless about what I was doing so very, very wrong…
If the love and respect I wanted with Dayo never came back.
Every time I imagine that version of my life, I slap myself back to life.
Grateful I didn’t end up stuck in that painful life…
Then I look at my husband Dayo lying next to me…
The man I use the techniques in “The Love Reset” with every day to keep him devoted, even obsessed with me…
The man who introduced me to his entire family with so much pride in his eyes…
The man who paid my bride price without hesitation because he couldn’t imagine his life without me…
And I smile, cuddle up to him, feel the steady thump of his heartbeat as he pulls me close…
And go back to sleep more content and happy than I’ve ever been…
I want you to feel that too…
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